Young people of the Xibe ethnic group set up relationship through arrow shooting event. If a young lad wants to show his affection towards a girl, he needs to win the heart of the girl through competitive shooting skills.

If a girl favors some young lad, she will draw the bow together with the boy. Thus, the affection between the two is conveyed and the two begin a relationship.

At the wedding banquet, the bride and bridegroom should come to each guest proposing toasts to show their gratitude toward the guests' attendance.

Relatives or neighbors can feel free to come to the banquet. They could cut some meat and take it home, and the host won't charge or make any record.